The Crash Seen Round the World

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It’s hard to believe that 13 years have passed since the sunny September 11th in 2001 when life as we Americans knew it changed dramatically. Although some WWII veterans were still around, the majority of us had never experienced an attack on American soil and no one had experienced an attack of this magnitude from outside terrorists in the continental US.

Ask anyone and they will tell you where they were, what they were doing and the impact seeing that second plane hit the World Trace Center (WTC) had on them.

I Remember the WTC Attack Like it Was Yesterday

Like every other American on September 11th, 2001, it was just a normal weekday for me. I got up, got the oldest off to her elementary school, dropped the youngest at preschool and went home for the few hours a week I enjoyed to myself. One of my routines was to turn on the news, so I flipped it to Fox and saw that a plane had crashed into one of the WTC buildings.

What a tragedy, I thought. So sad. wonder if there were mechanical issues? Wonder if the pilot was suicidal? I hoped the people were okay and started to pay attention to the news more than I would have normally when it was just background noise.

What happened next has been described as throwing most people into a state of shock. Shock is not how I react to crisis. The minute that second plane struck the second tower, I knew in an instant that our country was under attack. No way was that second plane another accident. One was unbelievable enough, but two was an attack.

The scary thing was that you didn’t know how widespread the attack was. Was it just in New York? Was it just big cities? Were the schools going to be attacked? I didn’t pause for shock. I was on my feet and out the door, stopping to get my preschooler who was just up the street and then rushing to the elementary.

They had locked down the elementary and wouldn’t let the few parents there get their children. Now, there are many reasons why I think this is a bad idea, including the fact that I do think terrorists will target our schools at some point. However, at that time, the schools did the best they could in a moment none of us ever imagined. I returned home with my youngest and tried to distract her and keep her from seeing the coverage while I watched as much of it as I could.

What Have We Learned?

Here were are, 13 years later, and on the eve of the worst attack in my memory our president is preparing to speak to the nation about the threat of islamic terrorists, there are multiple planes (11 at last count) missing from Libya and no one has ever accounted for the Malaysian plane that they “think” went down.

But, even though that thought is frightening and it seems as though things could be worse than they were even back a decade, we are different than we were 13 years ago. Gone is the innocence of thinking we are 100% safe on our own soil. We’re more observant. We’re street smart now.

I bet, if you are like me, you’ve even been on an airplane or at a public event and gone through different scenarios and how you’d respond. The terrorists might come after us again, in fact, I would almost guarantee they will. However, our response this time will be vastly different. The military will shoot planes out of the sky. If there are passengers, they will fight back.

This week, as we remember those who lost their lives during the 9/11 attacks (the heroes who ran into the building or brought down planes and also all those innocent lives that were taken), let’s also remember what makes us Americans and binds us together.

We love our country.

We will always fight for freedom.

We are stronger together.

We aren’t perfect, but we would’t want to live anywhere else.

Tomorrow, I will be praying for those who lost loved ones on 9/11. I’ll also pray for our country and that God protects us. And, even though it is hard for me to do, I will pray for the terrorists and that their eyes are opened and hearts changed. What will you be doing tomorrow? How will you mark the day or will you? Share your thoughts below.

Free Short Story from Lori Soard

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Dear Readers,

My short story “Dancing Lessons” is available for free download now through August 13th. It is a quick read. It is already formatted for a kindle, but you don’t have to have a Kindle to read it. You can read it quickly online as well.

This is a story about the power of true love and how long it lasts. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.

Love you all!

Lori

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Blog Tour Notes

I want to thank everyone for joining me on my first blog tour. I had so much fun on this tour.

A special thanks to Marilyn Meredith, whose notes about her own blog tour helped me be better organized with my own. I think what I enjoyed most about this tour was meeting new readers and getting to know some writer friends as bloggers as well as making a couple of new friends.

People Are Nice!

In my day-to-day life, I am always running into people who remind me of how much kindness and camaraderie there is in this world. They make up for the few rude ones who will drop a door in your face or cut you off on the highway. There was the 90-year-old woman recently who I had a lovely conversation with in the grocery store and the friend I made at the dentist’s office while waiting for my mom.

There are interesting people everywhere and I love meeting them and talking to them when I leave my house. Doing this blog tour was a lot like that. I met some truly nice people. It was interesting to talk about websites over at Mad Lemmings because the readers got very involved and had some smart insight to add.

Special Thank Yous

I want to take a minute to thank those who hosted me on their blogs. Some of you simply saw I was lining up a tour and took it upon yourselves to contact me and invite me to your blogs. Others responded to a message I sent because I liked your blog and thought we were a good fit.

You all worked hard to get my articles up, get the word out and make me feel welcome. Thank you to:

Finally, I want to thank one special reader named Kimberli Campbell. Kimberli was a great support throughout my entire tour. I think she read nearly every article, commented on them and just made me feel supported. Thank you so much, Kimberli. I truly appreciate it and I’m going to send you a gift. I will contact you here in a moment about it via Facebook.

Wrapping Up the Tour

The tour was fun, but it involved a lot of additional writing and keeping up with comments. I will likely wait until my next book release before scheduling another one. Thank you so much for joining me. If you missed the tour, you can go to the tour schedule page and still read the old posts on each of the blogs I visited. Thanks so much!

Lori Soard

Upcoming May Blog Tour

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I am thrilled to announce my first blog tour coming up in May. The places, topics and dates are below. Come join me as I go on this tour and let’s chat about a variety of topics related to writing and life.

May 5th-6th: Marilyn Meredith Blog
http://marilynmeredith.blogspot.com

“When People Make Me Mad, I Just Murder Them”

May 8th: See Ya on the Net (LaShaunda Hoffman)
http://lashaunda.blogspot.com

“Why I Started Writing”

May 9th: The Writer Reads (Jeanne Grunnert)
https://thewriterreads.wordpress.com/author/jeannegrunert

“Note from Leani from Dear Viking

May 10th: Ella Medler
http://ellamedler.wordpress.com

“Author Spotlight”

May 11th: Restless Chipotle (Marye Audet)
http://www.restlesschipotle.com

“My Grandmother’s Teacups”

May 12th: Mad Lemmings
http://madlemmings.com/blog

“5 Reasons Your Website Drives Visitors Insane”

May 13th: Manic Readers
http://manicreaders.com/blog

“Inside the Mind of a Writer” (How I came up with the idea for Dear Viking)

May 14th: Lillie Ammann
http://lillieammann.com/blog

“Interview”

May 15th: Luxury Reading
http://www.luxuryreading.com

“Favorite Books and the Recipes that Made Them” + Recipe for Viking Stew

The Left Side of the Room is Empty

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It has been a rough few days in the Soard household. My baby dog, almost 14, has finally crossed the rainbow bridge. She was having liver issues and went downhill rapidly. After talking to our regular vet, I knew I could no longer let her suffer in pain. She was miserable and it wasn’t going to get better but worse and suffer more and more pain. There was no way to stop her pain fully but to let her go.

Tonight, the left side of the room is empty and barren. She was always right next to me, day and night. She layed to my left on the couch, snoring as she got older. Her teeth were few in the last couple years and her tongue would hang out. In recent months, we had set up a small portable playpen in the left corner where she could be when I was cooking dinner or doing other work as she was blind and couldn’t be left to her own devices. The last few days, she’d pretty much stayed there as she started to ail more and more.

The left side of the room is empty without her and I’m not sure I’ll ever completely get over this loss. She was a tiny, two-pound puppy when we met. It was love at first sight and while you aren’t supposed to buy pet store dogs, I couldn’t help myself. I insisted my husband buy her “for the girls” and $700 later she was ours. Yes, it might seem ridiculous to pay that amount of money for a dog. However, looking back on it, I am so glad we did. $700 was a very small price to pay for the best friend I’ve ever had.

She was a tiny miniature dachshund. Most of her life, she weighed around 8 pounds. She quickly took up with me and never left my side. She loved me when I was mean, when I was kind, when I was stinky, when I was thin and when I was fat. In her eyes, I was the best thing in this world and she couldn’t get enough of me. I have had many pets I’ve loved over the years, but I don’t think I’ve ever had one that loved me quite as much or as hard as she did. No one else compared in her eyes and some days she didn’t even particularly like anyone but me, especially as she started to feel bad.

She loved to eat cucumbers and McDonald’s French fries. If you had even been in a McDonald’s that day, she would lift her nose and sniff the air. She loved to go “bye bye” and was smart enough to have learned many tricks. When she was younger, she would chase her tail, wave bye bye, dance and high five as well as sit, down, beg, etc. She knew so many words and what they meant that we almost communicated in the same language at times.

When she was about a year, we tried to go to obedience school. She was a little dog who thought she was big and tried to attack the Rotweillers in the class. We were politely told it might be best to not return. If I was gone for more than a day, she was so excited to see me that I had to greet her outside or on solid flooring because she would get so excited she would tinkle.

How empty the left side of the room is without her there. How empty my heart is without her love. My only solace is that I got to tell her goodbye. I got to reminder her how much I love her, how good she is, how I believe I will see her again one day. I got to make the decision that this precious creature would leave this world and no longer be in pain. Although it was a very hard decision to make, because hope always wants to believe there is a chance, I know I did what was best for her under poor circumstances. I honored the love she had for me all these years by giving her the gift of peace. Not for me, but for her.

I’m not sure my heart will ever completely heal from this particular loss, but life goes on. What a blessing to have been loved with such pure devotion and affection. What a gift she was to my life. I love you and miss you, baby dog. I always will.

Random Acts of Kindness – Listen for Opportunities

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It’s been a while since I’ve posted about RAOKs.

I still do these from time to time, but I also know that it is best to keep them quiet, because if you toot about them, then the recipient may figure out who you are and that isn’t the point of a RAOK.

A RAOK is a random act of kindness. You listen and watch for a need that someone might have and you try to fulfill it. If you can do so anonymously, all the better.

Some people like to do things like pay for the person in line behind them at a fast food drive through or pick up the bill of a veteran or active military at a restaurant and ask the waitress to thank the person for his or her service.

Inspiring Waitress

A couple of weeks ago, Hailey and I stopped for lunch after she went to cheer. We had a waitress with the best personality ever. We hit the restaurant right after lunch and she was cleaning up the tables around us and we got to talking as she cleaned.

This sweet young girl had a personality bigger than life and we laughed and chatted for quite a while. I truly enjoyed our conversation. I learned that she is a young mother, trying to work, go to school and create a good life for her child. She offered some advice to my daughter, who is 17, and told her to stay in school all the way through because it so hard financially, physically and emotionally to go back after you have children and are grown.

I left her three or four times the tip that I would normally leave (I usually tip about 20%). I really wish I could have tipped her more. She is working hard and trying to do something positive. Her attitude was not a “poor me, look at all I have to struggle with” attitude. Instead, she wanted to be an example to her children and she wanted to help my daughter by telling her how to do it in an easier way.

While the tip wasn’t completely anonymous, we didn’t stick around to take credit for it. If I were a millionaire, I would have offered to pay for her schooling for her. Who knows? Maybe you’ll be the person who does that for her or someone like her.

What random acts of kindness have you participated in recently? Share them in the comments section.

What a Character!

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Sometimes as a writer, it is almost as though characters come to life. Where these people are created from is hard to say. Maybe they resemble someone we know or once knew. Maybe they are a part of us and who we’d like to be. Maybe they are a combination of several people. Then again, just maybe they come to life in a make believe world that is created by the author and only she and her readers can go there.

Libby Comes to Life

I am currently working on an inspirational contemporary romance. It’s been slow going as I gather different, very specific pieces of information, complete research and write out various scenes. However, there is one part of my book that is not hard to write and that is the character of Libby.

You see, Libby is a secondary character. She really shouldn’t be a big part of the story. However, when she enters the room, trust me that she takes over the scene. Libby has no problem speaking her mind and speaking it far too frankly. Not everyone likes Libby. She can be pretty difficult and she drives my heroine in this new book crazy. Yet, my heroine, Gracie, sees Libby’s heart and she loves this other woman and considers her a dear friend.

Gracie wants to understand what makes Libby tick and so do I, so Gracie is always asking her questions. The only problem is that Libby is pretty tight-lipped about her past and what has made her the woman she is today.

  • Admirable
  • Feisty
  • Mean at times
  • Cranky
  • Smart
  • Cunning
  • Loyal
  • Strong
  • Hidden heart of gold

These are all words that apply to Miss Libby.

Libby’s Future

It’s hard to say how this book will turn out. Not only do I have to finish writing it, but then the editing process begins. My hope as a writer is that my editor and my readers will enjoy this character as much as I do, because I can’t imagine this story without this cooky old woman. Already, Libby has made me laugh, brought tears to my eyes, made me angry and made me like her. I can’t wait to introduce all of you to Libby one day very soon.

Love,

Lori

 

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