Growing Up With Stories

little house in Appalachia

years, I The thing I get asked most often when people I meet learn that I’m an author is when I first started writing. The answer is pretty complex, because it feels like I always wrote and before I had formal reading skills, I told stories, was surrounded by stories and loved stories. Growing up with stories shaped who I am today.

Growing an Author

As a child, I grew up visiting my family in West Virginia in the Appalachian Mountains. The oral storytelling and musical traditions of my people were rich and wove a tapestry filled with conflict and resolution. The stories were true tales with added embellishments to make them more exciting.

The stories in my life didn’t stop there, though. My dad would tale me funny tales about a lovable giraffe at bedtime. He’d read me words out of Reader’s Digest and we’d have little quizzes, building my love of the language even more.

It was in first grade, when Mrs. Young taught the class to read that the world opened to me. I began reading almost all the time and writing my own stories for fun.

The Lightbulb Moment

I always kept a journal, wrote a few round robin stories with friends through high school and started a few books. It wasn’t until college that I took a journalism class as an elective that I realized you could get paid to write. I’d always looked to fiction, but the professor had us write an article and submit it to a newspaper of our choice.

I approached a man in our small town who owned exotic animals. I would see them on his farm as I drove past every day–alpacas, camels, zebras… With my class assignment in mind and my love of God’s creatures, I did something that probably wouldn’t be very safe today and just drove on up to his house and knocked on the door one day. I explained what I was working on and asked if he would let me interview him and I was submitting to the local paper but it might not be published.

He was the most helpful and kind man. Not only did he give me an interview, but he had a friend with even more exotic pets on the other side of town. The man turned out to be none other than “Skunk” Irving, owner of Irving Materials (the concrete company).

I wrote the article, got an A and submitted it to the local free weekly reader. I kind of forgot about it after that with the hustle and bustle of young married life, working 30 hours a week and going to school full-time.

Wait! You Can Get Paid for This?

About a week later, my home phone rang. We had cell phones back then but minutes were expensive and you used them mainly for an emergency. The call was from the free weekly paper. They wanted to “buy” my story and they planned to put it on the front page.

I still remember feeling as though the room swirled. I could get paid to write? They were going to PAY me? How many more stories could I write? Is this something I could do to make money? I’d tried everything and I mean everything at this point, something I’ve discovered since that many writers do for some odd reason before settling into writing. Maybe we need the info for jobs for our characters or something?

Absorbing Information

I began reading everything I could about how to submit articles, writing query letters and about writing the romance novels I loved. Throughout the next few constantly pitched ideas to magazines.

I began writing as a stringer for the paid daily newspaper in my town. The editor slashed my work ruthlessly, teaching me to write tight and within a very narrow word count down to the last character. He sent me on assignments and taught me investigative reporter skills.

I learned and learn some more.

Still a Born Writer

Fast forward to over 30 years later. I have no doubt God created me to be a writer.  My purpose is to bring comfort, laughter and word of God’s love to the world. I might do other things to eat and pay bills, but I always come back to my stories.

If I can make a small difference in someone’s life with something I wrote, even if just teaching them a new perspective or a bit of information, then I consider my effort a success. Stay tuned for news about my next release coming in July.

The Flicker of Creativity

People often ask how I come up with story ideas. It’s difficult to describe that little flicker of creative that bursts into a flame and eventually consumes me until I have to tell the story.

My ideas don’t always arrive in the same way. Once, I woke up from a dream with a full-blown story from start to finish. Other times, it is a scene in my mind and a character clamoring to have his or her story told. I am definitely inspired by the things around me. A place I visit, a song I hear or something someone says to me all play into the creative process.

My Latest Novel

anna's fresh start coverThe idea for Anna’s Fresh Start has been percolating for years. I design websites and I used to have an older client who wrote a book about an old war ship. He loved history and we would chat all the time about different wars. One day, we were talking about the Civil War and I remember there were female spies from something I’d read.

Michael sent me an entire box of books on the Civil War and a few on female spies for both North and South. It sparked my curiosity and soon my character was created in my mind. I’d think of her from time to time She didn’t yet have a name or a story. She just was–only creatives will understand what I mean. Anna, without a name at the time, was waiting for her turn.

The Idea Gets Refined

One of my writing friends, Lisa Prysock, asked if I would like to be part of the Brides of Pelican Rapids series set just after the Civil War in Minnesota. Instantly I knew it was time to tell Anna’s story. It would be from the viewpoint of having been a spy and trying to start anew.

I did a little more research to figure out where she fit in the war. It didn’t take me long to model her after my late cousin who passed a couple of years ago. They had the same feisty spirit but loving nature. She even looks a lot like my beautiful cousin, except for the eyes. My cousin had bright blue eyes like all my cousins do but fictional Anna’s eyes are a unique hazel.

As I created my story board and fleshed out the plot, the entire story took place, including Anna’s fears for her sisters and conflict over whether or not she made the right choices.

Refilling the Well

I finished my book a while ago, but I keep refining, editing and changing bits and pieces. Today was the last day to upload my version for readers for the release day on the 30th of September.

I feel spent. No ideas are percolating and I have another project I have to finish and get in place by January 1st (short but has to be done ahead of time for edits and such).

When I get that way, I know it’s time to refill the creative well, as Julia Cameron would say. I made it through 28 years of writing and the ups and downs of it. I survived the pandemic and what it did to my creativity. I know I just have to pray for inspiration and see the beauty in the world around me. The idea will come and I will love it when it does. For now, I’m still living in 1870 and loving the town and characters. I hope you enjoy it, too. You can pre-order Anna’s Fresh Start for only 99 cents through September 30th, 2024. Then, the price goes up to $2.99. https://amzn.to/47Z8D5L

She Had Her Mountains – Poem

The New River Gorge Bridge, seen from Fayette Station Road, at the New River Gorge National River, West Virginia.

This is a poem I wrote about my grandmother after she died. What an amazing woman my Grandma T. was. She raised 10 children. My mother was smack in the middle of the pack and their father died when my mom was about 12. My grandmother still managed to raise 10 wonderful kids. She was a young woman during the roaring 20s and loved to dance. She was kind, gentle and fiery all at the same time. I’ve never met anyone like her, who could be so humble and yet tough as nails. I miss her greatly, but am so thankful to have had her into my 30s.

wedding photo of lori soard with her grandma and grandma-in-heart
Our grandmas at our wedding – they both had the most beautiful souls…

She Had Her Mountains

When the world pushed her down, she pulled herself back up.

When she was in pain, she asked, “Are you okay?”

When someone was rough, she still said, “Thank you.”

When those she loved were taken, she knew she’d see them another day.

When she was hungry, she shared her food.

When she didn’t have money, she had her faith.

When she didn’t have mansions, she had her mountains.

A gentle soul,

A gentle reminder,

Of love and faith.

She touched so many lives.

Like ripples in a mountain crick,

Her gentle touch has spread

And will continue…

As long as there are children,

Grandchildren,

Great-grandchildren,

Great-great-grandchildren,

A beautiful legacy of a life lived for love and not for self.